Monday, December 30, 2013

A little something on time and destiny

My friend and I were talking yesterday. She is a little elder to me and I always look up to her for support and advice. And she always happens to say the right things. Most of the times, things that I want to hear. Its amazing. She told me this one thing yesterday.

"Everybody's story has been written in a certain way. If you ever feel weak think about that and work hard."

Saturday, December 28, 2013

The feeling before and after the last exam

4 hours Before:
You are sitting in one place, holding your head. Aiming the book at angles to your eyes for just the right absorption.
 Since you decided to ignore your mother on her attempts to make you study, you have to finish the entire syllabus in those few hours.
You have already had a cup of coffee and you are on your way to finishing your energy drink.
Your friend comes in and announces that she hasn't finished her subject either. She sits down and starts cramming next to you.
Another friend who does share the subject with you shows up and you start studying together with the hope that whatever you study is asked in the exam.

3 hours swish past like minutes. At the moment, all you think appears on the paper. Some of it from the book, some from your imaginations.

After the exam:

It doesn't matter what came for the exam and what didn't. It doesn't matter what you wrote. All that matters is that its over. And it feels like a burden is lifted off the head. It doesn't matter that you have to get back to studying for something else the next day. All that matters is that, at the time you are free.

 Thanks for reading,
XO Ayesha

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

The big day!

Christmas is finally finally here!

Merry Christmas to everyone!!!

This is especially very special to me because its the birthday of 3 people in my life! My dad, one of the two most important persons in my life. And two of my close friends. Happy Birthday to them!

Lets hope their lives are filled with happiness, and so is all of Jesus's Children's!

XO Ayesha

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

The Liebster Award

I have been nominated by Vanessa Eugine for the Liebster award. Thanks Vanessa!

 For those of you who are unfamiliar with this, as I was, The Liebster Award is for people who have 200 or less followers on their blog to help let readers get to know more about the blogger and to help the blogger gain more followers. Here are the few rules that need to be followed:
  • Link back to the nominator 
  • State 11 Facts about yourself
  • Answer the 11 questions given to you
  • Nominate 5-10 New Bloggers with less than 200 followers
  • Give those nominated 11 new questions

11 Facts about moi:
  1. I am studying to be an engineer.
  2. I love to roam around. I spend a lot of time in the city bus. 
  3. I am super talkative. And super entertaining. Most of the times.
  4. On the same note, I can talk comfortably to anyone. I make friends easily.
  5. My favorite actor is Shahrukh khan. No matter what people say about him, he will always be my favorite!
  6. I can't sketch or do something artistic. Its like my hands shake and it gets ruined! Until very recently I couldn't apply eyeliner. It was a struggle for me to get it right!
  7. I love mirrors. I have 5 in my bedroom! I keep 1 in my bag always. A little bit of self obsession!
  8. I love food. I love junk food. I love love pizza!
  9. Coffee is a savior. I love it. Cold, hot, espresso, everything!
  10. I talk a lot in my head when I am alone. I over think things, yet I do stuff without thinking. I can be lit-tle crazy like that.
  11. I love walking. I power walk on a daily basis. Like, when I have to go to college, or the shop, or any other. 

Questions from Vanessa: 

1. What inspires you to blog?
I love reading blogs. It started off with the question, what should I buy for college. Once I started looking through blogs, I couldn't find the end to it. I thought of starting my own blog 2 years back, but I could not get myself to do it. Finally, in my final year, to keep stress on the low and stay happy I started writing. And I absolutely love it!
2. Who is your inspiration?
I read Theskinnyconfidential on a daily basis. I love the way she writes. I read how she started her blog. She inspires me! She also inspires me to suppress one of my favorite yet unhealthy habit of eating junk. I'm on it!
3. Can you speak another language?
I speak Hindi and Urdu at home. I am trying to learn Kannada as well. Kannada is the official language of my state.
4. Is there a principle/rule you live your life by?
I just like to stay happy. I like to keep those around me happy too. I guess the principle would be, to stay positive and happy. 
5. What is your weakness?
I'd have to say, A good outing. I can leave everything and go off!
6. Besides blogging, what do you to with your spare time?
Go out, eat, spend time with family, watch a lot of television on my laptop, WhatsApp friends. 
7. What is your biggest achievement?
The biggest one is yet to come. But things are going as they should be! 
8. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?
I'd like to visit every corner of the world, frankly! But if I had to pick one place, It would be Ribadeo, Spain. It has one of the best beaches in the world.  
9. What is your dream job?
My dream job would require travelling. I'd like to be the sales head of some big company.
10. What is currently your favourite song?
Listen to it yourself! 

 11. Any regrets?
No use crying over spilled milk, is there?

Now, I'd like to nominate the following people for the same award.
  1. Arpita Tiwari
  2. Karen Walker
  3. Saniya
  4. Stephanie
  5. Marie
  6. Carmen Priotto
Here are my questions for you!
  1. When and why did you start blogging?
  2. Who are in your family?
  3. What is your favorite food?
  4. 5 things that make you happy?
  5. What is your favorite piece of jewelry?
  6. If you had to wear only one color all your life, which would it be?
  7. Whats in your handbag?
  8. What is your favorite beverage?
  9. Who is your role model?
  10. Which do you pick? Comfort or glamour?
  11. One thing you can't live without?
Have fun! Merry Christmas! 
Hope you participate... 
Do comment if you have more question!

Friday, December 20, 2013

Best thing about christmas

Christmas is just 4/5 days from now. But the Christmas spirit has been all over the place for many days now. It got me wondering...

What is the best thing about Christmas? 

Monday, December 16, 2013

The wonderful effect of smile

Smile is such a wonderful thing that lots have been written on it, but its still not enough. And since its the season to be merry and jolly, spread a smile while you're at it!

Friday, December 13, 2013

Healthy criticism is good!

I published my first post on the 5th of June. Its been over 6 months. While I could have done better, I think owing to how busy my life has been in the last 6 months, I did pretty Ok. But this isn't the end of it. With your support I have been able to publish 82 posts and this is my 83rd one. I want to do better. I read "Your opinion matters" on the blog What Kenny Hearts by Kenny Manalad. I realized that there is no better way to find out where you are lacking than asking the people who read it. And that is you!

Please provide healthy criticism to my blog. Advise me on the layout, my language, or anything else that you'd like to be different. Also if I have done a good job please do tell me. Everybody likes appraisal.

XO Ayesha

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

A full night of sleep

There are many things that can make a person feel great. But nothing like a good night's sleep!


Monday, December 2, 2013

Anybody with a phone! Improve your phones battery life!

Cell phones have become such an important part of our lives that going with them for even an hour or two seems impossible. And those times when you get down to one bar remaining, are the toughest times ever!

How many times a day do you charge your phone? I've seen my friends do it 2-3 times. And I find it really amusing how their battery dies so fast. Well, here are some tips that you can use to make your battery last longer!

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Used coffee grounds

The next time you make coffee on your machine and take out the grounds from the filter, don't throw it.

Monday, November 25, 2013

2 AM music

You know one of those songs that you listen to, and you don't know how you can ever relate to it, or if you ever can, but you just feel like swaying your hips and your hear to the melody and the voice!?

This is definitely one of them for me.

Its a song from a recent Bollywood release, Ram-Leela. I don't want to get into the story, how much ever I'd love to. But this song is one sensual song. And trust me on this, you can do all your pilates moves on this song.

Here is a video. Do watch it. Even if you don't understand the lyrics, its great eye candy. Both the actors are looking really good!

So, I am sitting here, listening to this song, on repeat, and I think may be others would like it too.

I hope you do!

Thanks for reading,
XO Ayesha.

Friday, November 22, 2013

Ego and its games

Rusty Eric once said, " When you allow your ego to control your thoughts, everything you believe becomes an illusion".

What is ego, why does it play such a big role in our lives?

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

I was cheated on...

How would you feel if you were cheated on my someone?

This is my story on how I was cheated on!

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Pretty posts!

Blogilates brings to you, The best 5 ways to lose weight.
And not just that, she is starting 12 weeks makeover. Must try! I just started Pilates yesterday and this is such a motivational post! Don't forget to watch the video!

Just check out the beautiful nature photos on Minnie's blog! Just made me happy. Needed to see these!

Winter is coming, and its flu time, unless, you visit katz' blog and learn natural ways to get through cold season!

I have an android phone but love this post on iphonography, by Kerri.

Great advice for the 20 somethings, by Dakota McLaughlinfrom Thought catalog!

More from Thought catalog, 18 things everyone should start making time for again, by Brianna Wiest. Its true, each and everyone of them. People stayed happier doing these regularly!

Saturday, November 9, 2013

An ode to handwritten letters

When was the last time you wrote a letter to your loved one? And by wrote, I mean actually use a pen, and fill a paper made from a tree bark with words that matter!

Handwritten letters are losing their charm. People communicate through texts, Whatsapp, facebook, and all the means that can be used over wireless. Of course these means are faster and cheaper than the previous but don't you think when you are writing a letter, there you are putting so much more feelings in there. And, I'm not just saying love letters, although that would be great too. What I'm talking about a letter to your parents, to your friend, or anybody special, something that they can hold while they read it, where they can smell your scent vaguely. That they can keep with them forever.

I love handwritten letters. I feel that if you are writing a letter to me, you are giving a tiny piece of you to me. Some of my friends write mushy letters to me on certain occasions not. I love them.

So the message here that I'm trying to convey is that one should write letters. They are so personal and they convey so much more than an email or a text message. So start writing!

Thanks for reading,
XO Ayesha

Monday, November 4, 2013

Movies by the years


I have silly little hobby.
I like to read celebrity and movies wikipedia pages.
I don't really read everything. But I like going through them.

So, a few things caught my attention while I was going through a couple of pages from the time of wizard of oz and gone with the wind and then psycho and so on.

 The first thing that caught my attention was that how many of these scripts were adapted/copied to make slightly more current movies, even Hindi!

Saturday, November 2, 2013

Thursday, October 31, 2013

Happy Halloween! Boo!

I met my friends today for lunch. That's when we started discussing Halloween and all that comes with it. Ghosts, spirits, and real life stories associated with them.

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

3 flicks to watch for a good feeling

Everyone has their miserable times, and so do I. As I've mentioned in a post earlier, I sometimes like to watch movies to evade the happenings of my life. When I watch a movie, I expect it to make me feel better about the system, life, and even myself sometimes. Although these movies can't take sadness away, they can definitely make you forget it for a while.

1. Its a wonderful life:

Monday, October 28, 2013

Festy weekend: Friend's birthday, Maaya and pre-Diwali dinners

This weekend was mainly dedicated to celebrations. There are times when you don't need a reason to celebrate. This weekend wasn't one of those times. We had all the reasons and the resources to celebrate like maniacs.

Sunday, October 20, 2013

New glasses

My spectacle power hasn't increased one bit (thank god!). But I had totally spoiled and scratched my spectacle lens and broken that little thing which sits on the nose aka nosepad. In short, I had all the reasons to buy new glasses.

Saturday, October 19, 2013

A tour through my habitat

Hello all, I've been meaning to do this post ever since my room was done 2 months ago. And finally, its here! I've been living in this room since I was 12. But until very recently I was sharing it with my brother (so silly, right?). Finally when these two rooms were renovated(which took 2 months) my brother moved to that room, and I got this pretty, big room all to myself! It was hard to capture the entire room in one picture. So I've got different sections in different pictures right below.

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Bakrid mubarak!

India is one of places where you can have festivals on (almost) consecutive days. We celebrated Durga puja/dussera on Sunday & Monday and then Bakrid on Wednesday. So many cultures and so many traditions coincide to make our country, India.

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Some Durga Puja fun!

Hello all! I haven't been this relaxed in months! The last three days have been nothing but means to escape reality. So all I have done is reeelaaax! And that in my world means watching tons on TV episodes, sleeping and roaming. It was dussera/navratri/durga puja the past week and that meant fun! My friend had invited us to a gathering near his place.

Saturday, October 5, 2013

No Mess Gym Hair

I want to talk about this hair-do because:

  • Its simple and quick
  • It keeps hair together and away from skin(to a huge extent)
  • It looks more acceptable that hair stuck to face!

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Once upon a time...

Okay, so I am not starting a fairy tale. Most of you must have heard of once upon a time, the TV show! Its about fairy tale characters in the "real" world.The third season just came out this week, and it was bigger and better than before and I thought I must do a post on it! The main highlight of the show was Henry, who apparently has a heart of a true believer and Pan wants him because of that. And two of his mothers, grand fathers, a grand mother and a pirate are all out to save him from "Neverland"

Okay so I have put down my favorite shots below.

While they all fight the storm, in order to reach the island so as to find Henry

Regina is the only one who has the mind to use her magic in their aid. Regina is my favourite character, and if you are wondering why, then I can tell you. She is brave, smart, young, and even though she has a negative character in the show, when it comes to her son, she is ready to cross all limits to come to his resque.

This scene was really cute. Mulan asked Neil to think of Emma and not a place. And all I could think of was.. LOVE!

The heart of the true believer manages to fly,but to whom? To the boy he has been running from all along? And what's going to happen in the next episode? Will they manage to save him!?

Hope you liked this post,
Thanks for reading,
XO Ayesha

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

I'm back, I hope!

I come online everyday, and I want to write posts. But I can't! The past two weeks have been so hectic, so stressful and so negative, I thought Its better to just not write. But, I have realised, that just gets me more frustrated. Funny thing is, I have two half written posts lying in my drafts waiting to be completed and published. And I really need to do that! 2 weeks is the longest I haven't written since I started. Also the whole diet plan didn't work this time because of all the anxiety. In case you are wondering what stress. Well, placement stress, tests stress, ATTENDANCE stress! Its all too much. I really need to get my shit together and chill and work hard towards my goals. At the same time I need to write posts to relax and stay happy even when there is no reason to be!

Thanks for reading,
XO Ayesha

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Yes, there is a place like this left in Bangalore

It was some time in the morning when I took these pictures. This is in the WMS compound BSNL where my friend lives. It is really hard to find places of such beauty in Bangalore now.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Zumba time!!!

After starting and stopping fitness routines many times, eating like a pig for weeks together after ramadan, you can very well imagine what can happen to a person's body. Yes, life gets difficult. Especially if you love looking at the mirror!

Thursday, September 12, 2013

Why I love clichéd romances and bheja fry type movies

I have already done a post on some of my must watch chick flicks.
If you wish to go through my list, click here

Sunday, September 8, 2013

Simple little things

Happy Sunday all! Since we are getting an extra day, I just feel so much more productive. There is a pooja followed by lunch at my friends place. I'm so excited to have the festival food.

Saturday, September 7, 2013

blood suckers!

Beware of these icky creatures and the problems they cause to the human kind.
Do not let them bite you.

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Polka dots fun :)

I cant start with explaining to you how crazy I am. I bought an umbrella at Kolkata, red with white polka dots! I am obsessed with it. I love polka dots. And this one has frills also. I keep it in my bag all the time. But do you want to know the crazy part?

Monday, September 2, 2013

Trying to snap out of being a procrastinator

Back in the days, I wrote an exam which asked for the synonym for procrastination. I didn't know. Its ironic how time taught me the meaning and practicality of the word!

Here I am, years later, writing about procrastination in hopes of being able to learn from what I read! From my own experiences, I can only teach a person on how to procrastinate better. I always find reasons and means to do it. Sometimes I feel I should make a few bucks out of it. Alas! Nobody really gives money to a person for such a habit. Hence, it is more than important to find ways to not.

Here's an observation. You procrastinate only what you don't enjoy doing. Sometimes, you might like doing something, but you don't like the way its done. And blah blah. If that thing is important for your growth or wellbeing, it is at most important to like it. In one way or another. And if that is not possible, you could really think of putting it off forever and switching to something else. I'd like to give an example from my own experience. I never procrastinate on activities I really enjoy. I love going out. Even if it is for the boring groceries. I guess this could be one reason I am my parent's only favorite child. Haha! Just kidding. I'm trying to find ways that I can procrastinate on my work lesser and try to enjoy it.

From now on, I'd like to spend time working rather than thinking about it. This is probably the time to put down a cliché like time and tides wait for none, or Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time. But writing these will not help me until I really start digesting it and doing the right thing.

To read nice articles on the same and many others, click here.

Thanks for reading,
XO Ayesha 

Saturday, August 31, 2013

In desperate need for fitspiration

Ever since I left for North India, I have been guilty of
  • Not eating right
  • Not exercising
  • Not caring about my ever increasing waistline
And after I came back I have been enjoying a hell lot! Which in my words, means eating a lot! It is Saturday night, and I just had a meal in Pizza hut, an I'm feeling awfully guilty about how my food habits have gone boom!! Blasted off into nowhere! Forgive me for going all dramatic, but I'm actually glad this happened before any major changes took place on the scale.

So here I'm thinking about how I can revert to being careful of my exercise routines and green tea! What I'm looking for, is not to lose 2 or 5 pounds, but for a lifestyle change. I know that I cant stop eating junk, unfortunately. But I also need to take steps for nullifying the effects of that junk. And hopefully going the 80-20(or 60-40) way. Anyway, so guess what I turn to for help for? PINTEREST! Well its true that I Google most things. From books to celebrities. But when it comes to clothes, food and fitness, Its pinterest! To check out my pinterest fitness page, click here.

My things to do list for tomorrow

1. Drink a glass of lemon water as soon as I wake up.

2.  An hour of Zumba Exhilarate.


3. Have green tea and salads. I last had green tea 4 days back. So its really weird. Before that I was having it everyday.

If you want a simple way of making green tea, click here .

Recipe for this salad can be found here

 Do you have any tips for me? Comment below:

Thanks for reading,
XO Ayesha